Wednesday, December 28, 2011
A TRUE Christmas
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
in all of penang, only you two are on bicycles
This week has been great. Things are still tough, but I'm still happy. It's my Saviour's birthday! And we all know how much I like birthdays :) I've had a good amount of time to think about why Christmas brings us so much joy, and I think a lot of it has to do with promises. God has promised his children so much, and Christmas is when we celebrate the time when our Saviour was born and those promises started being fulfilled. We can see that God's word is good. We can put complete and total trust in those promises. He has promised us eternal life, and we may not have obtained it yet, but the promised way there was born in the city of David. He has promised us that He'll never leave us alone; He'll come to us and comfort us if we'll just call for Him. And we can have His peace, which is not of this world. He promised that all things would be gathered in one in the Latter-days, and that promise began to be fulfilled when a young boy named Joseph Smith knelt in a grove of trees and the Father and the Son came to him to answer his prayer. And we're promised that our Messiah will come again. What else could we ask for? I love the Lord and I love this season when we get to focus on things that are not of this world. I hope that all of us can have a light heart this year as you think about the love that your Heavenly Father has for you in order for Him to promise you so much.
J&S have been reading the Book of Mormon and we talked about baptism this last week. If you haven't seen the new video on lds.org, watch it! We're going to watch it with them next week :) http://lds.org/pages/mormon-messages?lang=eng#a-book-of-mormon-storyD,D, & A. D is the 16 year old girl we've been teaching, and D&A are her parents. Before we thought we were just teaching the dad, but then her mom came to the Christmas party at the church, and to sacrament meeting on Sunday morning! We'll be going to visit them tonight.
We visited with G&M on Sunday night also. M is not Christian but shared such an awesome yet simple testimony of prayer. We invited her to pray to our Heavenly Father every day and she tried it for a week. At first she said it was like she didn't have problems anymore, then corrected herself saying, "Or I guess I still do have problems, but it's like I know how to get through them better." She said, "It feels wonderful, like nothing I've ever felt before." Luckily we got through that part of the lesson before a bee came into the flat and made the rest of the lesson a little harder to focus on.
Did I tell you about DA? He's a man that the elders used to be teaching, but stopped answering their calls. About a month ago, we were on a bus and he came up to us asking if we were the Mormons. The elders had given us his number to try meeting with him but we couldn't get a hold of him either, and we didn't know he was the man we were talking to on the bus, if that makes sense. He told us his name as he hopped off the bus and we were in shock wondering if it was the same guy we'd been trying to call. Then about two weeks ago, we were biking to an appointment and he biked by going the other direction (see! someone else bikes too!), so we stopped and talked and invited him to come to the Christmas party, and he came to that. Then on Monday, we stopped for dinner and as we were eating we watched a man at another table who was reading a newspaper but had his back to us, thinking that it might be him. When we left, we walked past the table, and it was him! So we sat down and talked for a while just about his life and different things, then got down to God. He is big on science and doesn't believe there is a God or any creator. All we could do was teach and bear simply testimony that there is a God, He is our Father, and we can know Him. We invited him to try praying and he said he would. We're meeting again tomorrow.
Now to R. She's an 18-year-old girl we found in a kampung last week. We asked some people if there were any Christians in the kampung and they pointed us to her house but no one was home so we just left a pamphlet in the window. We went back later to find it was a Jehovah's Witness home, but they let us in and were so nice. We went back to see R last night and had a really great lesson about the Restoration of the gospel. She's still very unsure of the idea of a prophet after Christ, but the amazing part is that she wants to learn and she wants to listen. We were so scared going into the lesson that we would just be confronted with so many verses in the bible and the Spirit would be driven away through contention, but the Spirit was there the whole time. She's sincerely looking for truth. So I'm counting that one as a miracle. I'm excited to see where it goes with her.
Two of the younger girls in the branch have started calling me "Shakira Jie Mei" (Sister Shakira). Don't know where the confusion is coming from, I think it's just the hair.
Sister Norton
HFI
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
south side
This week has been leaps better than last. I've just decided I'm going to be happy and I'm not giving up without a fight. Dad, your email about the relationship you've developed with our Father in Heaven did so much to help me evaluate the relationship that I have with him. And I know He doesn't expect me to just give up now, it's just a few friendly curve balls. I'm still in the game.
We had a great lesson with D&D last week, teaching them the Restoration of Christ's Church. When we asked them how they felt about it, they said it made them feel like Christ is still near. We testified that He is very near, that He leads this church, and invited them to be baptized, which they accepted once they get a chance to first pray about it. We'll go back tomorrow night.
We still hadn't heard from the first J for a while, the young Indonesian mom, so we just decided to stop by her flat and let her know we're concerned and we love her. I was so glad that we did, even though it let us know that she's maybe beginning to give up hope. She has no ride to church and her husband won't take her, so she's starting to feel like she shouldn't learn any more because she knows she won't be able to have it as part of her life. It made me so sad for her. We've got to find her a way to get to church. At least she now knows that we're not giving up yet.
So J&S, our awesome Nigerian friends. We taught them about the Restoration and after that, J's concern came out...she doesn't think there was enough music and rejoicing at church. I immediately thought of something I wanted to show them on mormon.org, Alex Boye's profile. Turns out his mom was from Nigeria! There was an immediate connection with that. Then S wanted to show us some music that he listens to every day, and he turned on the Mormon Tabernacle Choir! I told them about my love for music and singing and S even made me sing with the Motab recording. I loved it, so much fun. They are so full of passion and love for the Lord. I tried to bear testimony of music and it's power, that we believe it to be a prayer, but there's right music for the right time, and during sacrament meeting is the time for reverent music to help us remember our Savior and not chase away those sacred moments we have to reflect on what He did for us. It helped, but they're still not sure I think. We'll see them again tomorrow also though.
Last night was crazy. We had an appt. with a friend of someone who is learning about the Church in Singapore. We biked out to their place, which took about a half hour longer than we expected and got there just dripping in sweat. She asked us to pray for her mom and her family because her mom has diabetes and there are some other problems in the family. From what most Christian churches are like over here, I assumed that she wanted us to "bless" her mom, something that we, as sisters and not having the Priesthood authority, can't do. They are all Hindu and didn't invite us over with the intention of learning more about Jesus Christ or His church, but just to get some added blessings. That is definitely faith, I am not doubting that. But we explained to them that we didn't have the power to heal or give them blessings, we could only pray with them and teach them how they could pray for themselves. We taught them about how faith works, and how prayer needs to be followed with faith in Jesus Christ and a desire to follow Him. Then we all knelt together and we taught them how to pray. They invited us to come back and teach them more about Jesus Christ. They even want to take us to their cousin’s house to teach them for Christmas! THEN we were told we weren't done and we still had to go to the mother-in-law's house and pray for her and teach her about prayer because she has cancer. Luckily they took us in the car for that one. That's what took us down towards the beach. I guess I shouldn't say we biked all the way there :) It was such an awesome night just going around teaching about something so simple as prayer and helping others to begin developing that personal relationship with our Father in Heaven. Nights like that make me love missionary work.
Dengan kasih,
Sister Norton
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
we pakai basikal lah!
Sunday was a miracle. We haven't ever had more than one investigator come to church...we got four this week. And they're all progressing. Heavenly Father isn't letting us give up just yet.
Sadly, J isn't answering calls or SMS from us...so my heart is broken once again.
Our new J, from Nigeria, came to church and is doing great though. She introduced us to two of her friends and we had a great lesson with them on Monday. We'll be going back again on Friday. I love Nigerians.A few highlights from the week:
Sister Wilkes got bit by a kid while we were teaching a lesson.
We were knocking on some flats when we got to a door and a man opened and asked, "Did you just call me? How did you know my name?" We were confused and explained who we were and a little bit of the message we were sharing. He let us in and invited us to come back again, but kept bringing up that someone had called his phone right before we knocked on the door, asking for him by name. When he said yes, they said, "Ok thank you, wrong number." Apparently he and his family just moved into that flat two weeks ago and he hasn't given anyone their landline number yet. I was thinking about it a lot after we left and when we returned a few nights later to teach him about the Restoration of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Book of Mormon, he brought it up again, saying he keeps thinking about it, and that's why he let us in. He thinks he's supposed to listen to what we had to say. I knew that was true the second he shared that. Sadly he didn't give us a time we could come back and teach more. I guess it shows how loving the Lord is to help us recognize answers even when He knows we have the agency to ignore them. I just hope he will give the Book of Mormon a chance and we'll hear from him again. He's the assistant pastor at a Lutheran church here in Penang.
Other than that, it's been a pretty tough week again. I've been thinking a lot about the kind of temptations that Christ faced in order for Him to tell Satan, "Get thee behind me." I think he was probably throwing a lot of discouraging thoughts at the Lord, trying to make Him think He couldn't fulfill His purpose. I know I don't have the same purpose as the Savior of the world, mine is insignificant in comparison, but I do know I have been set apart to find His lost sheep. That's my purpose. And sadly Satan has really been getting to me lately. He makes me cry and feel like I can't do this every single day. It's been tough. But I can't describe how thankful I am for prayer, the chance I have to talk with my Father in Heaven and plead for the comfort I need to keep going. I receive it every time I ask. I'm also thankful for the Book of Mormon, for the Holy Ghost prompting the authors of that book to write things that would be so relevant and so comforting to me. Just read Alma 26. I know in whom I have trusted. I'm not giving up yet.
HFI
Sister Norton & Sister Wilkes :)
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
ular!
You never want to hear someone screaming "snake" at the top of the lungs while barreling towards you. We were at a Buddhist temple today and were walking down a path when the snake came out and bit a guy. He didn't seem to worried about it...so I'm guessing it wasn't poisonous.
It's been what basically seems like a failure of a week except for one or two bright spots. Maybe three. We've had every single appointment we've scheduled with investigators drop through on us (fall through?) except for one. We've hit several flats that had not even one door want to listen to us. We had to spend almost the whole day yesterday figuring out a bike situation. Aiyo. It must be the end of the year. I feel the battle.Then the next...We've spent a lot of time knocking flats while faith finding lately and sometimes I think it's completely pointless when we don't get anything out of an entire building, but we had a cool experience on Sunday night that changed my thinking a little bit. We came across a door of a Hindu family and a girl in her 20's answered the door. She said she hadn't ever learned about Christ and maybe wasn't interested because she's Hindu. It had been a long night so we didn't push it and just left. About 20 minutes later, we were leaving the building and I reached down to turn our phone off silent to find that we had two missed calls and an sms from a number we didn't know. The sms said, "Hi, I want to learn about Jesus Christ, can? Can call me?" So we called of course! The best part is she wants to meet later this week because she talked to her mom about it and she wants to learn about God too and she'll be back from Singapore at that time. So, I'm now convinced that miracles happen when you put in the time faith finding. We're expecting a lot more this month. Just got to have the eyes to see.
J is still doing great. She's now into Jacob in the Book of Mormon.
We met with another cool Nigerian last night too. He was very on guard, having already heard about us Mormons. But, he still had to see what it was all about for himself. He wanted to know what the deal is with the Book of Mormon. We explained it to him and he said he saw a video on lds.org about a bishop in Africa who said his life was changed by the Book of Mormon. We gave him a copy and I got chills when he said everything we told him sounds familiar, he just doesn't know where he's heard it before. So, he's reading and taking his time to figure out for himself. Perfect.
HFI
Thursday, November 24, 2011
loaves and fishes
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
just don't make eye contact …
My dear mommy, Sister Howard, dies today. For all of you that don't know missionary lingo, stop freaking out. It just means she's going home. TODAY. I can't believe it. We celebrated her year mark yesterday I swear. Her parents came a little early to pick her up, so they came to Penang! It was surprising to get a call on Saturday from "Martha's mom" telling me she would see me at church the next day! But it was fun to meet them. Man she's a good missionary.
We've had a busy week. Out in the sun a lot...my feet tan lines are getting pretty sick. I pass out the second I lie down every night, and I LOVE being that busy. We were able to meet up with a less-active member of the church who hasn't been since she was baptized almost two years ago. She came to church on Sunday!! So that was a great feeling. And we finally got supplies. So now we can actually give people stuff like Book of Mormon's (it's a title lah, don't try the whole Books of Mormon thing on me).
Our lesson with J last week was awesome too. Before we could even start talking about the restoration and Joseph Smith, she wanted to ask us some questions. First, why are there so many Christian churches? Second, how can she know which one is right? Bam. So it turned out really well when we could answer those. We could just see everything clicking for her. She accepted an invitation to be baptized if she learns that it's the truth, so things are coming along.
Then we have S, M, & T. A group of Indian siblings between the ages of 10 and 18. We had an incredible lesson with them just about who Jesus Christ is and why he's important to us. It was really special to be able to tell someone about the Saviour who knew only his name before. Their parents are fine with us going to the house and teaching, but we just hope we can get the whole family interested.
Then we have another situation with P and the twins. They're 9 and 6...their parents are Hindu and don't want Christianity, but want them to learn. So we had a sweet little lesson with them, and the parents want them to go to church, but they won't take them, and we don't have a car. So it's a difficult situation, see?
Then our next Indian family, G, D, E, S, R, & I. Three generations, all sitting down and listening to the message of the restoration together. It was incredible! G is Catholic from birth but they follow Hindu in his house because D, his wife, is Hindu. D is amazing though. When we asked her to pray about Joseph Smith and whether or not God and His Son appeared to Him, she said, "I think it's true. It's too weird that you would be here if it wasn't true. You're strangers and I let you in so I think Jesus sent you to me to teach about Him." So we have high hopes for this family.
We also had another lesson with HF. It was going ok but when we introduced the Book of Mormon and asked her to read the Introduction, she said she's too lazy to read. So my heart kind of sunk. I know she will never progress or learn whether or not this is true without reading that book. So, we'll just have to help her build the desire.
Sister Wilkes and I have really been focusing on obedience lately. We're trying to go through every little rule that sometimes gets passed by or thought of as "flexible" to make sure we're having exact obedience in our companionship, basically just because we need it. We've been reminded a few times that obedience brings blessings, but exact obedience brings miracles. And I really think we're starting to see that. And Penang needs miracles. But we still have a long way to go to perfect obedience. I just think it's a really great thing that Heavenly Father has given us; maybe others don't see that, but I know we couldn't live without our rules over here. We'd drown. I know it's like that for every commandment Heavenly Father has given us. He knows us. You don't think he knows how you'll get the most blessings and success? It's through obedience. I'm sure of that.
Sister Norton
HFI
Thursday, November 10, 2011
FIVE. I'm five.
Ok, so...let's start with F. We had such an incredible lesson with him last week. We again talked about Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon and why Christ's church needed to be restored. It seemed like it was flawless...the Spirit was there so strong and the best thing was happening...F was starting to share the beginning of his own testimony with us, telling us that he definitely believes that it's possible for Joseph Smith to have seen God and Jesus Christ and he's willing to pray to know if it's true. So, obviously we were pretty hopeful that he'd be at church on Sunday morning. He didn't come :( So the next plan is to figure out what the issue is that's keeping him from being there even when he says he'll come.
We did a lot of faith finding again, and we're let into a lot of homes, finding lots of new people to teach...it's just getting them to follow through on the commitments they've made to meet with us again. But things are really looking up here. I'm hopeful :)President gave each of us in biking areas a special whistle in case we ever run into trouble or get separated from our companion. All he told us is not to blow them inside because they're extremely loud. Confirmed. While walking through a neighborhood last week, a pit bull started coming towards us and he was not so friendly looking...so I took out my whistle and blew as hard as I could. He ran off whimpering and Sister Wilkes and I couldn't hear for the next five minutes. I'll take ringing ears over stitches though :)
We were going through our area book and at the few former investigators (some from years ago..) and found someone that looked promising (also the only one whose number is still working) so we gave her a call and asked if we could meet her. HF is 18 years old and just barely met the elders this last summer. It might not have been the right time for her then, but we met with her and invited her to start learning again and she agreed. She's really sweet so we're excited to get to know her more.Things are looking up with the branch too. We had a great fireside last Sunday night and started to get to know the members a little more, it takes time to get to know each area and the personalities in each ward/branch, but I think we'll be just fine here in Penang. Good things are going to be coming out of the Penang Branch soon. I'm positive of it.
Zone Conference with President was incredible. I don't have time to write about all the training we got, but I can just say that I really think this was a turning point for me and the time I have left in my mission. I am certain that the Lord knows me. Every concern I've had over the past few weeks here in Penang was addressed, either by President, the AP's or the Holy Ghost as I sat, listening to the training and how I could apply it to the work I'm doing. I'm certain that my life would seem a lot darker without the blessings of personal revelation and having Priesthood leaders who are led by the Lord. Good things are coming.
I'm almost out of time, sorry! We also all went to an elephant reserve together for ZC. And questions of yours, mommy....yes we wear nametags. President Clark changed that around the past couple of years so there are no longer any areas that don't wear them. There are mosquitoes...but I only have a few bites. I think they all go for Sister Wilkes...kasihan dia. We're still waiting on the second bike, so still walking everywhere, getting a nice tan :) Hope that answers everything. I love you all!! Have a great week!
Sister Norton
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
I keep praying to God, I want to be a tree!
Things are really starting to pick up here. I like Penang :) It's a bit quirky. Something I never thought I'd say...I LOVE knocking doors and faith finding. It really can be so much fun. Yesterday was the best example of that. Here's the sequence of events for the night: First we went to see an Indian family that said we could come back and share more the other night. They were still busy...but we'll try one more time. Then we ran into the most beautiful family I've ever seen, from Nigeria. They were so kind and invited us to come in, but we couldn't teach them anything because of their religion. They were very disappointed by that...they wanted to know what message we were sharing that seemed to be so important that it brought us all the way from America. They said they know the sacrifice of leaving home so they appreciate what we're doing, but they still wanted to know. It broke my heart a little. I promised him that I would email him when I get home next year.
Next we ran into another Indian family and they were amazing! Invited us in, TURNED OFF THE TV, wow. So good. We're going back on Saturday night to share more with their two daughters.
The next house was an Indian man that came to the door saying, "I English one no so good lah! I don't want go to church, I go to temple!" He was funny and we got to kacau him for a bit but not too much interest.
Then this adorable little Indian/Malay boy appeared out of nowhere, showing off his Boliwood moves. We chatted a bit about his sweet dance skills and then he became our shadow for the rest of the night. I snuck a picture of him and before we left he said, "Auntie! Besok?" Which means tomorrow haha. It really broke the ice when we were knocking on doors with him right behind us though. Everyone thought it was adorable. He followed us for four floors of flats! Oooh he was so cute.
Then we were invited in by another really nice family from Pakistan but couldn't teach them, again, because of their religion :(
The next fun one was getting Malay and Mandarin mixed up at another door. I was mixing them so bad...usually I can kind of flip the switch in my head from one to another but this time it was bad. But the Chinese couple (who spoke both but no English) thought it was hilarious. So, it was just a fun night. We're finding lots of new people to teach.
The highlights of the week were teaching J and F. J is from Indonesia and married to an Indian man, they have the most adorable son. We had our first lesson with her on Monday and we'll see her again this Sunday. She's amazing, so so sweet. We talked about baptism last time and she was excited. F is that awesome Nigerian neighbor I told you about. We taught him about the restoration and got to know him last week. He has had an intense life, but his faith is amazing. He wouldn't stop thanking us for the Book of Mormon that we gave him and he's already started to read it :) We'll meet with him again tonight, so more news next week.
Ok I'm off my soap box. And I hope that all made sense. We'll have news of an upcoming baptism next time we write :) I love you all and appreciate your prayers!
Alison, a letter is on it's way with the AP's next week! Love you!
Sister Norton
HFI
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
gray hairs
My Malay is a lot better than I thought it would be, I can chat it up with the locals pretty easily and we're making a lot of friends. Sister Wilkes has pretty killer Malay too, she's on fire! I'll write more about her next week. Have a happy Deepavali!! And Landon...I got your letter before I left, no worries! I'll write back asap. Alison, I miss you! I hope you're helping out lots, they need you in Singapore! Keep me updated on everyone, ok? I'll write you soon. Love you!